Most people who suffer narcissistic abuse, don’t stop to think that they may actually have a lack of healthy narcissism.

Narcissism, in itself, is not a bad word.  It is malignant narcissism that causes all the trouble in the world.  We all need a good dose of healthy narcissism in order to have strong self-worth and the ability to stand up for ourselves.

Since opposites attract, it is often the person who is lacking in narcissism that is attracted to the person who is highly narcissistic.

Increasing one’s own narcissism can be a way to change their attraction dynamic to include healthier mate and friend selection.

Learn more about increasing your own narcissism in my video below: