Go to Product-specials/ Listen and/or download the Podcast on Pandoras-box-radio.com. Most people who experience narcissistic abuse have difficulty getting anybody to understand what they are going through. People understand physical abuse. They understand verbal abuse. They understand very controlling behavior, but they don’t understand the subtle, crazy making, type of slow destruction that results in […]
Category Archives: Borderline Personality Disorder
Healing Narcissistic Abuse Now Available in Print
In January of 2013 I went to Costa Rica and wrote my book “Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self.” It has been available as an E book but not in print. By popular demand I have now launched this book in print. It is a pretty large book at 382 pages. Healing Narcissistic […]
Uncover a Narcissist! Have Needs
Many of us who end up getting involved with narcissists are conditioned to deny our own needs and focus on the wants, needs and desires of the other. We learn, early on, that our needs are not important and should we voice a need, we are shamed for having it. We are often called selfish […]
Addicted to Chaos and Drama
If you find that you continue to get involved in relationships where there is constant drama and chaos, there may be an inner aspect of you that is addicted to the drama. Why do you continue to return to unhealthy and toxic relationships and environments? Why do you find it so difficult to break away? […]
Narcissistic Abuse No Contact Rules
Why Initiate a”No Contact” Rule When Leaving a Narcissistic Relationship No contact is initiated as a way of breaking the psychic emotional bonds between you and a narcissistic partner, friend or family member. If you have been involved with a narcissistic person for any length of time you will undoubtedly have a strong attachment […]
Shamanic Healing For Narcissistic Abuse
Last night I had a very powerful dream. I was doing energy work on an elderly dying woman, helping her to make her transition. While working around her body there was a demonic presence in her energy field and I ask it to leave. Begrudgingly it shouted a few obscenities at me and left the […]
Getting Out of Narcissistic and Abusive Relationships
I’ve been in several long-term relationships and I was always the one who made the decision to leave. It wasn’t always abuse that caused me to leave but normally it had to do with my asking the question “Why am I here?” Relationships, to me, should be something that enhances our lives and adds to […]
Spiritual Recovery from Emotional Abuse
When we are in an emotionally abusive relationship it is easy to feel as if we have been victimized by our abuser. We feel hurt and wounded on a very deep level and want to blame the abuser for what he or she did to us. However being a victim will keep us trapped in […]
Is There a Cure for Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
Although many would disagree with me I believe anything can be cured. I am a fan of Louise Hay’s book “You Can Heal Your Life” where she talks about how incurable means “to cure from within.” This means that when a doctor says something is incurable that means the doctors don’t have a medicine or […]
The Rewind Technique for Post Traumatic Stress
In working with victims of Narcissistic abuse I realized that most people who are just coming to the realization that they have been with a narcissist come out of the relationship with symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. I remember in my own case I was diagnosed with PTSD and tried everything to alleviate the […]