Self Love in the Face of Persecution

Self Love in the Face of Persecution

The most important lesson I have learned in all the years I have worked in the field of recovery from Narcissistic Abuse is that such abuse can only destroy us in the absence of Self Love. On a spiritual level we draw to us the opportunities to grow and expand in consciousness. We may not […]

Narcissistic Abuse Misunderstood by Therapists

Narcissistic Abuse Misunderstood by Therapists

Many clients contact me after seeing several traditional therapists for narcissistic abuse, and not getting results. Narcissistic abuse is a very complex issue.  It is not easily understood by most therapists. Although narcissistic personality disorder is studied for diagnostic purposes, the effects of this disorder on those closest to the narcissist are not studied or understood.  […]

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

Co-parenting suggest co-operation in parenting the children with the best interest of the children as the primary focus. Narcissists don’t put the best interest of the children ahead of their own self-interests.    This is truly unfortunate and of course, we can all agree it shouldn’t be this way and this is really difficult for the […]

Post Traumatic Stress and Anxiety

Post Traumatic Stress and Anxiety

In the aftermath of Narcissistic Abuse, we usually have two major things going on….Post Traumatic Stress and Emotional Overload, which contributes to the Post Traumatic Stress. Both need to be approached differently. Emotions need to be welcomed and felt. We need to develop emotional awareness and learn to embrace what we are feeling rather than […]

Embracing Your Anger

Embracing Your Anger

Have you ever felt you shouldn’t feel angry? Or it wasn’t spiritual to be angry? Or anger is a toxic emotion? Have you ever put on a happy face when you are seething inside? In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks about how important it is to embrace your anger, to allow it and […]

Emotional Avoidance and Healing Core Pain

Emotional Avoidance and Healing Core Pain

Listen on Pandora’s Box Radio   Emotional avoidance is something that plagues a large majority of our population.  Although it is prevalent in the world at large, it is also at the root of personality disorders such as narcissism and borderline. We live in an emotionally repressed society and at the root of our emotional […]

The Spiritual Path of the Empath

The Spiritual Path of the Empath

People who fit into the catgory of Empaths, Highly Sensitive Person, or Energetically Sensitive person may find they have been given the gift of heightened awareness for a reason. In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah explores the spiritual path or mission that is unfolding for the “sensitive people” of the world and how embracing […]

The 3 C’s of Codependency

The 3 C’s of Codependency

Have you ever thought that Codependency is the reason you are attracted to and stay in toxic and/or dysfunctional relationships? Codependency is a pretty common buzz word these days but also a very common coping mechanism for people who grew up with dysfunctional family dynamics. In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks about three […]

Are You a Scapegoat

Are You a Scapegoat

Are you someone who is the black sheep of your family? Have you always felt you were different? Do you have a hard time fitting into the “norm” of the people around you? Are you sensitive and empathic? Do you often find yourself the target of other people’s hostility? Do you seem to get blamed […]

Why You Are Addicted to the Narcissist

Why You Are Addicted to the Narcissist

Teal Swan made an excellent video on the topic of Relationship Addiction.  She brings in science of how mice, when given intermittent reinforcement in the form of pellets, they become crazy obsessed, camping out at the pellet dispenser, pushing the button, trying to get a pellet.  When a pellet is dished out intermittently, the mouse […]