Can’t Face the Truth So I will Blame YOU!

Can’t Face the Truth So I will Blame YOU!

It is such a theme, I see in my work and even in my personal life with people who are unable to face the truth about something in their lives, normally something about themselves they don’t want to look at. We all have a self-protective mechanism and most people don’t like constructive criticism. We don’t […]

Caring for Your Feminine Power

Caring for Your Feminine Power

Since the beginning of time, women have been giving their sexual power away.  We learn early in life that our sexuality is something that men covet.  Our sexuality is used against us.  We have experienced abuse and rape at the hands of others, many whom we have loved and trusted. Even if you are a […]

A New Program for Panic and Anxiety!

A New Program for Panic and Anxiety!

If you often find yourself “freaking out,” after the narcissistic discard, or from the PTSD following narcissistic abuse, there is help. As a counselor specializing in Narcissistic Abuse, I have people contact me on a regular basis needing emergency care.  They are often in a state of panic and don’t know what to do.  They […]

The Power of Prayer to Revive a Lost Soul

The Power of Prayer to Revive a Lost Soul

Nothing outside of you has power over you, other then what you give it.  The only true power in your life is the power of the creative force within you.  We call this force God, or Presence, or Lifeforce or any number of things.  It is the same force, regardless of what we call it. […]

Spiritually Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Spiritually Surviving Narcissistic Abuse

Narcissistic abuse can be one of the most soul damaging experiences.  Most people who have experienced this would agree this kind of abuse has been the most painful thing in their lives. The question becomes “how do I survive this?” In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks in depth about the spiritual aspects of healing, […]

Everybody has a Dark Side

Everybody has a Dark Side

Listen on Pandora’s Box Radio I often hear people say “he really has a dark side.”  A better way of saying this might be “he has a really dark side.”  Because the truth is….we all have a dark side. We live in a world of duality and this means we have good/bad, light/dark, hot/cold, big/little, […]

How Your Stories Keep you Stuck in Narcissistic Abuse

How Your Stories Keep you Stuck in Narcissistic Abuse

One of the most common questions victims of narcissistic abuse ask me is “how do I stop thinking about it?”  There are a lot of reasons we get stuck in ruminating about the narcissist and what he or she has done.  Often the behavior you have witnessed is atrocious, even unforgivable, as you might see […]

Post Traumatic Stress After Narcissistic Abuse

Post Traumatic Stress After Narcissistic Abuse

Go to Product-specials/ Listen and/or download the Podcast on Pandoras-box-radio.com. Most people who experience narcissistic abuse have difficulty getting anybody to understand what they are going through.  People understand physical abuse.  They understand verbal abuse.  They understand very controlling behavior, but they don’t understand the subtle, crazy making, type of slow destruction that results in […]

Fear and Drama is the Ego’s Food!

Fear and Drama is the Ego’s Food!

Recently, on the advice of a mentor, I revisited Eckhart Tolle’s book “A New Earth”.  Often when we have had years of growth between the last time we have read a profound book like this one, it is like reading it for the first time, because there is so much insight we might not have […]