Experiencing Lack of Support Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse

Experiencing Lack of Support Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse

Are you experiencing lack of support recovering from narcissistic abuse?  As a therapist for people recovering from narcissistic abuse, one common complaint is the lack of support people are feeling in their recovery process. If you had lost a loved one to death, people would be there helping you. Even if you were going through […]

Do You Want Revenge against the Narcissist?

Do You Want Revenge against the Narcissist?

A friend and I were having a conversation the other night and we hit on an interesting topic; the topic of revenge against the narcissist. We are both involved in a group that is trying to bring justice to a woman in our community who was both physically and narcissistically abused, and we asked ourselves […]

5 Ways a Narcissist Uses Your Fears To Hook You

5 Ways a Narcissist Uses Your Fears To Hook You

Would you like to know the 5 ways the narcissist uses your fears to hook you?  The more we get to know ourselves; know our deepest fears and insecurities and work to bring healing to these parts of ourselves, the less we will be able to be manipulated by others. This includes the narcissists of the world. 

Will I Attract Another Narcissist?

Will I Attract Another Narcissist?

There is a common assumption that once we have healed and done our inner work, we will no longer attract the narcissist into our lives in dating situations. Is this true? Is it true we will no longer be attracted to a narcissist?

Becoming More Narcissistic

Becoming More Narcissistic

Most people who suffer narcissistic abuse, don’t stop to think that they may actually have a lack of healthy narcissism. Narcissism, in itself, is not a bad word.  It is malignant narcissism that causes all the trouble in the world.  We all need a good dose of healthy narcissism in order to have strong self-worth […]

Self Love in the Face of Persecution

Self Love in the Face of Persecution

The most important lesson I have learned in all the years I have worked in the field of recovery from Narcissistic Abuse is that such abuse can only destroy us in the absence of Self Love. On a spiritual level we draw to us the opportunities to grow and expand in consciousness. We may not […]

Narcissistic Abuse Misunderstood by Therapists

Narcissistic Abuse Misunderstood by Therapists

Many clients contact me after seeing several traditional therapists for narcissistic abuse, and not getting results. Narcissistic abuse is a very complex issue.  It is not easily understood by most therapists. Although narcissistic personality disorder is studied for diagnostic purposes, the effects of this disorder on those closest to the narcissist are not studied or understood.  […]