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One of the most common questions victims of narcissistic abuse ask me is “how do I stop thinking about it?” There are a lot of reasons we get stuck in ruminating about the narcissist and what he or she has done. Often the behavior you have witnessed is atrocious, even unforgivable, as you might see […]
We’ve all heard that to forgive is divine, but what about those situations that feel nearly impossible to forgive? What about those people who have treated you in such a way that it feels unforgivable? Many of my clients talk to me about forgiveness and the first thing I say is “don’t worry about forgiving […]
Go to Product-specials/ Listen and/or download the Podcast on Pandoras-box-radio.com. Most people who experience narcissistic abuse have difficulty getting anybody to understand what they are going through. People understand physical abuse. They understand verbal abuse. They understand very controlling behavior, but they don’t understand the subtle, crazy making, type of slow destruction that results in […]
Well, I have been dragging my feet, but after years of broadcasting on Pandora’s Box, I have decided to start making video’s. I’ve always been a bit camera shy and didn’t really like the idea but realize how powerful video’s are for people looking to understand a topic like narcissism. Many of my counseling clients […]
I wrote an article many years ago called “Did the Narcissist Ever Really Love Me?” This is a popular topic and so when I began doing YouTube video’s, I decided to do a video on this topic. You can watch this video below and be sure to subscribe to my channel for more powerful video’s.
When we examine the Victim Archetype, we look deep into our shadow to find the part of ourselves that looks at life through the lens of the victim. We tend to feel victimized by our relationships and circumstances in our lives. We unconsciously attract victimizers into our lives who adequately trigger us. In this episode […]
In January of 2013 I went to Costa Rica and wrote my book “Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self.” It has been available as an E book but not in print. By popular demand I have now launched this book in print. It is a pretty large book at 382 pages. Healing Narcissistic […]
Many of us who end up getting involved with narcissists are conditioned to deny our own needs and focus on the wants, needs and desires of the other. We learn, early on, that our needs are not important and should we voice a need, we are shamed for having it. We are often called selfish […]
If you find that you continue to get involved in relationships where there is constant drama and chaos, there may be an inner aspect of you that is addicted to the drama. Why do you continue to return to unhealthy and toxic relationships and environments? Why do you find it so difficult to break away? […]
After many years focusing on narcissism and abuse I find myself transitioning into the phase of “what comes next.” For me the next step is to take the time to really focus on the book I’ve been working on that addresses the transformational journey inspired when we look deeply into the mirror of narcissism. I […]