One of the biggest concerns people have when they come to me for help and support is a recognition that they have a destructive relationship pattern. They may have a pattern of being with narcissistic and/or addicts and when they finally extract themselves from one bad relationship, they find themselves getting involved in another. Sometimes […]
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Cassandra and the Curse of Not Being Believed
Cassandra is the mythological story of a beautiful princess who was sought after by many. The God Apollo in his pursuit of her gave her the gift of prophecy; the ability to see the future. When she refused his advances, his rage drove him to curse her with not being believed. And so she foretold the future but nobody believed her.
How To Deal with Spiritual Bypass When it Comes to Narcissistic Abuse
Spiritual bypass is when someone uses spiritual language or ideals which result in invalidating someone’s reality. It is when spiritual principals are used to avoid dealing with reality. And spiritual bypass is used by both the abused and those who the abused come in contact with.
Does the Narcissist Always Win?
If you have ever been involved with a narcissist you quickly learn there is no win/win and you might ask the question “does the narcissist always win?” With a narcissist, it needs to be win/lose and you need to be the one who loses. But perhaps we are really playing very different games, or not […]
Pray for Those Who Have Harmed YOU!
Often the last thing we want to do is pray for those who have harmed you or done you wrong. Instead you might be more inclined to curse them and speak ill of them.
Embracing Lonliness after Narcissistic Abuse
When you find yourself alone and disconnected from others, it is time to go within and connect with the deeper parts of yourself, the divine, your soul essence. In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah does a deep dive into embracing loneliness after narcissistic abuse.
The Greatest Love of All
One of the most important lessons we must learn in life, especially if we are hurt and unsatisfied in our intimate relationships is to love ourselves. To love ourselves we must respect and value ourselves, even when others are unable to. In the end, this is the Greatest Love of All.
Talking About Narcissistic Abuse
When you’ve experienced this thing called Narcissistic Abuse, it is normal, and healthy, to want to talk about narcissistic abuse; what you’ve gone through and how that narcissistic person isn’t at all, who you believed them to be.
Unplugging from the Narcissistic Frequency
Are you recovering from narcissistic abuse and want to rise up to a much higher frequency where there is love, nurturing, validation and true freedom? We don’t often see how we get pulled into the lower level narcissistic frequencies through constant devaluing and invalidation of our feelings and reality.
In this episode of Pandoras Box Radio, Kaleah talks about the energetic dance with the narcissist and how to stop dancing, unplug and return to yourself and your connection with divine love.
The Straw that Broke the Scapegoats Back
A continuation of Kaleah’s Series on “Healing the Scapegoat Wound,” Kaleah does a deep dive into understanding one’s role as a Scapegoat and what needs to happen to discontinue playing this part in our lives.