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We live in a world of programs. Our society is steeped in various programs that tell us who we should be. Our families all have their programs, mostly passed down from both sides of the ancestral lineage. Schools have their programs. We have programs in our peer groups. But all those programs we grow up with tell us who we should be rather than ask the all-important question “who are you?”
Addressing the Coronavirus This week Pandoras Box Radio addresses the concerns of the world wide Pandemic of the coronavirus and how we can use this time as an opportunity to make a quantum leap in consciousness. What can happen when we have the focus of an entire globe on one major concern? Major transformation! […]
The term magical thinking suggested that we delude ourselves with our belief that we can bring about a magical resolution or outcome to a situation in our life. However the magic of soul alignment is a different story.
Most dysfunctional family systems cast at least one of the family members into the role of the scapegoat. The scapegoats are usually the most sensitive ones. When people blame you, you may find that you are a scapegoat.
As we do our inner work, our shadow work, we look at all those things within us that are not loving. We look at our fear, which is the opposite of love. We look at our hatred, which is a resistance to love. We look at our envy, our jealousy, our resentments, and our deep pain. All of these keep us from embodying the higher vibrations of love.
In this episode of Pandoras Box, Kaleah talks with former Counseling Client Marie Claire who struggled with a pattern of getting involved with narcissistic men. She is now in a happy marriage that Marie considers to be the result of her hard work in overcoming these patterns.
In this interview Kaleah and Marie talk about the challenges of breaking addictions to narcissistic men, embracing self-love and finding “the One.”
For some of us, out greatest challenges begin early in life as we struggle with how to live in the world. Teenage suicide is at a record high with the increase in bullying, cyber bullying, and the expectations to fit into a societal “norm.” Anorexia Nervosa, a disease that effects a lot of young women is a type of slow suicide where one wastes away to skin and bones. If not treated it will result in death by starvation or complications of the disease. As a teenager I suffered from Anorexia which resulted in a near death experience, where I was given a choice. I would like to talk about my slow suicide and why I chose to live.
Most people coming out of a Narcissistically Abusive situation are suffering from Trauma. They have PTSD of the complex variety. One of the symptoms of PTSD is the spinning of stories. Telling one’s story over and over again can initially help with processing the trauma. But there comes a point where it actually has the reverse effect. It keeps one stuck in the trauma. Healing your Narcissistic Abuse Story is an important part of recovery.
The inner judge is the part of you that seeks to find fault with you. It may have begun as the external voice of a parent, teacher, sibling, or peers, but has taken root on the inside as the judging, condemning, fault finding voice.
Life is cyclical. It is a series of births and deaths. When anything has outgrown its form, it dies to the old and is reborn to the new. The key to thriving comes in letting go of what has outlived its form.