Since the beginning of time, women have been giving their sexual power away. We learn early in life that our sexuality is something that men covet. Our sexuality is used against us. We have experienced abuse and rape at the hands of others, many whom we have loved and trusted. Even if you are a […]
In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah explains the energetic dance that happens in relationships and how this applies to your relationship with the narcissist. As you can understand the dance of energy, you can focus on increasing your own vibration so that you are no longer on the radar of the narcissist.
Nothing outside of you has power over you, other then what you give it. The only true power in your life is the power of the creative force within you. We call this force God, or Presence, or Lifeforce or any number of things. It is the same force, regardless of what we call it. […]
Listen on Pandora’s Box Radio I often hear people say “he really has a dark side.” A better way of saying this might be “he has a really dark side.” Because the truth is….we all have a dark side. We live in a world of duality and this means we have good/bad, light/dark, hot/cold, big/little, […]
One of the most common questions victims of narcissistic abuse ask me is “how do I stop thinking about it?” There are a lot of reasons we get stuck in ruminating about the narcissist and what he or she has done. Often the behavior you have witnessed is atrocious, even unforgivable, as you might see […]
We’ve all heard that to forgive is divine, but what about those situations that feel nearly impossible to forgive? What about those people who have treated you in such a way that it feels unforgivable? Many of my clients talk to me about forgiveness and the first thing I say is “don’t worry about forgiving […]
Go to Product-specials/ Listen and/or download the Podcast on Pandoras-box-radio.com. Most people who experience narcissistic abuse have difficulty getting anybody to understand what they are going through. People understand physical abuse. They understand verbal abuse. They understand very controlling behavior, but they don’t understand the subtle, crazy making, type of slow destruction that results in […]
When we examine the Victim Archetype, we look deep into our shadow to find the part of ourselves that looks at life through the lens of the victim. We tend to feel victimized by our relationships and circumstances in our lives. We unconsciously attract victimizers into our lives who adequately trigger us. In this episode […]
In January of 2013 I went to Costa Rica and wrote my book “Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self.” It has been available as an E book but not in print. By popular demand I have now launched this book in print. It is a pretty large book at 382 pages. Healing Narcissistic […]
One thing I find in my work is that some readers get the bright idea of subscribing the narcissist in their lives to my newsletter. This is a very bad idea and let me tell you why. First of all, in order to subscribe the narcissist in your life to any “opt-in” newsletter having to […]