What makes the borderline disorder particularly challenging is the splitting from all good to all bad. This is why the borderline loves you one minute and hates you the next.
Borderline Personality Disorder and the All Good, All Bad Mother

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What makes the borderline disorder particularly challenging is the splitting from all good to all bad. This is why the borderline loves you one minute and hates you the next.
The discard phase is so challenging for survivors. Due to cognitive dissonance, created by the love bombing and the good days contrasted with the evil hurtful side of your ex-partner, you are left so confused, hurt, and in so much pain.
Would you like to know the 5 ways the narcissist uses your fears to hook you? The more we get to know ourselves; know our deepest fears and insecurities and work to bring healing to these parts of ourselves, the less we will be able to be manipulated by others. This includes the narcissists of the world.