If you have ever been involved with a narcissist you quickly learn there is no win/win and you might ask the question “does the narcissist always win?”

With a narcissist, it needs to be win/lose and you need to be the one who loses. But perhaps we are really playing very different games, or not playing a game at all. Perhaps the game the narcissist is playing isn’t a game worth playing and we need to learn to take our experiences and find a win for ourselves in how we rise up from the ashes of destruction and step fully into our true authentic self.

Maybe what we realize is that this is not a competition and the best strategy is to exit the fight.  Exiting the fight may be the best way one can take back their power and enter a competition that is worth entering, which is the competition to be our best self.

Listen to this Pandora’s Box Radio Podcast to do a deep dive into this topic and find out how you can win in your own life, regardless of what the narcissist does.